Monday, August 3, 2009

Boyfriends uncle was playing footsie with me at dinner what 2 do?

My boyfriend went to go visit his uncle on Saturday night.He was excited about us meeting because his uncle is so cool to him.We arrive at his house and meet his wife.We had dinner and during the meal his uncle was rubbing my leg with his bare foot.He kept going up and down my stocking leg and was trying to take off my shoe with his foot.I got up to go to the bathroom but had to return to the table but I was in shock.He started doing it again but I got turned on a little and just let him do it.Did I cheat?Should I say anything to my bf about his uncle playijg footsie with me?

Boyfriends uncle was playing footsie with me at dinner what 2 do?
You could have and should have moved so that he could not touch you. Your reaction (turned on a little) grosses me out. You should tell your boyfriend what happened and never be alone with his uncle. You are not much of a girlfriend if a stranger can turn you on with his dirty, stinky foot. Ewww. You need to check your morals, I think you left them at the door.
Reply:Tell your boyfriend immediately. His uncle's behavior was inappropriate.
Reply:I would let it go for now and not say anything yet. Next time you go over there, and he does it again stop him from doing it. And then let your boyfriend know
Reply:omg you got turned on ??? lol is his uncle hot ? oh god girl that's soooooooo not right (unless his uncle is hot...... so is he??) and duhh thats cheating but even if you dumped your bf you wouldn't be able to get with his married uncle....or maybe you could haha but in all honesty jokes aside that sounds pretty gross and effed up and wrong you also sound young so if your a teen thats harsh jail bait. good luck with that!
Reply:maybe he thought it was his wife's leg?wait no... anyway...TELL HIM yeah it's kinda cheating. (imagine if your boyfriend and YOUR aunt were doing that!!! you'd want him to tell you right?)
Reply:This is what you asked in your last question





"We went to see a movie and my friend told me I dare you to sit next to any guy and play footsie with him during the movie and see what happens.So I picked a guy who was with his girlfriend and we intentionally sat next to him.The movie started so I unziipped my boot and when it was dark I started rubbing his foot up and down and he didn't move.So I am elbowing my friend letting her know I was doing it.Then I pit my stocking foot up his leg.He wasnt moving and I think he was liking it I stopped after 10 minutes but later he started feeling my stocking foot so he wanted more LOL!I just tickkled his foot a little.But it just shows how horny guys are even if they have a lady they are willing to play footsie because they know they can't get caught.Other ladies might want to try it its a good joke LOL!"





this is my response in realtion to your last question and this one, you seem to like playing footsie, and i think that you were the one to instigate this.. plain and simple.. this is just weird and the story sounds similar but with a twist.. you were at your boyfriends "house" and it was your boyfriends "uncle"... think about it..





your just a confused girl that makes up stories cause u have no life......
Reply:no
Reply:YOU cant hide or ignore something like that. Yes flirting back to another man is considered flirting. How would you feel if the role was reversed and another girl had been doing that to your b/f??? YOu would be upset. Don't hide stuff like that from your b/f, he'll end up finding out and if you hide it he'll think something really is going on or worse believe his uncle if he tells him you started it. communication is the key in every relationship
Reply:blackmail him if he has money
Reply:First off your bf's uncle is crossing the line because you're his nephew's girlfriend and the moment it happened you should have pulled your man to the side and told him. You don't sit there and allow someone to do that because how would you feel say if your aunt was doing that to your man and he came and told you about it would you like it? Your man's uncle is disrespecting his nephew and his relationship.
Reply:yEAH u should so that he knows never to leave u and him alone and so that he says something to his uncle
Reply:Unpleasant as it is, tell your bf but you can leave out the part of getting turned on, that just clouds the issue. If you don't tell and you go back again the same thing will happen. If you wish you could wait until an invitation comes up and then tell bf you want different seating arrangements and then tell why.
Reply:First off, EWW





Second, yea tell your boyfriend, that's something he needs to know





Third, you ought to be shame for letting it go on. You knew it was wrong and you went along with it anyway. You enjoyed it so yea, you cheated!
Reply:I don't think you cheated; but I think you should say something. It might be hard because your boyfriend is close to his uncle, but it's for the best.





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Reply:you should confront Mr 'cool and MARRIED' uncle and make sure he knows this behavior is unacceptable. then decline invitations to do things that involve him in the future. if you have to attend functions with this man and he attempts to make more passes at you, CALL HIM ON IT IN FRONT OF EVERYONE ELSE.


If you feel like you can't (or don't want to) completely call him out, ask about it innocently (and loudly) as if you don't realize he is trying to hit on you (since him hitting on you is such an unbelievable thing) that his rubbing his foot on you must be some family custom you didn't' know about... lol)


this should sufficiently embarrass him into keeping his feet, hands and mind off his nephew's girlfriend.
Reply:u h well hmm let me think, YOU LET ANOTHER GUY BASICALLY FEEL YOU UP! you let him do it because it felt good? now if your bf were to know about this would he feel good? you sound young. you shouldnt have let him do that, you need to speak up about what happened.
Reply:Dont say anything to your BF but if you ever encounter that again you need to say something to the Uncle. No you didnt cheat either.
Reply:Eeewww Tell your bf!
Reply:uh wow you definitely cheated on him. you sound like a cheap asian prostitute. what the hell?? you got turned on?? i don't blame you though. you should totally sleep with him though and see how big his gun is if you know what i mean ; )
Reply:oh god. creepy!
Reply:Tell him that but if he doesn't believe then he just thinks you like his uncle.
Reply:Depending on how old you are Thats freakin digusting with his fungus big toe . Thats nasty now that I got a picture in my head. But yea tell ur boy friend
Reply:wow...you lil vixen you...lol...that is pretty hot...I'd keep your mouth shut girl for sure...I can guarantee the uncle is ready for phase 2 of his plans though, so you better avoid him...unless you want to....hmmm





Ignore the morons telling u to tell the BF...keep you mouth shut!!!!! and move on,,,
Reply:I think it might be wrong that you liked it. You don't have to tell your boyfriend, however you should advise the uncle that it is inappropriate for him to be doing that. He should keep that for him and his wife to be doing.


I wouldn't consider it cheating though. Just don't do it again and tell the uncle to stop, and you'll be just fine!
Reply:why would you get turned on by your boyfriends uncle...... have some morals, and turn that switch in your head off, and also, tell your boyfriend to put his uncle in check, that was pretty low of him to do, that guy is a creep. Hell, tell his wife, let her smack him up a bit, the jerk deserves it.
Reply:wear steal toed boots or sharp heels and kick him on the shin
Reply:You have got yourself in a world of trouble now...Now the next time the uncle sees you,he is going to want to take it to the next level B/C you let him do that,he is going to think that you want him..Hell you might what to...


Why in the Hell did you let him do that...especiallly not even knowing him....
Reply:You did not cheat but thats pretty gross (Stay away)
Reply:It's not your fault. Tell your boyfriend.
Reply:No...go for it your not married
Reply:did you have an orgasm?


if you did, you cheated



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