Movie theater incident...do I tell?

My husband and I went to the movies around a month ago.A man sat next to me and I thought he was cute.So the movie begins and this stranger starts feeling my foot with his.I thought it was an accident but it happened again.He then put his bare foot up my leg and was tickling it but I was getting turned on by it.My husband was so into the movie and had no idea I was being fondled by this stranger.I took off my shoe and put my stocking foot closer so we could touch feet.It felt so good.I had to go to the ladies room because I was getting so hot from this encounter.I came back 15 minutes later.He started playing footsie with me again and I played back.The man did slip me a card and when I got home it was his number and email.I might call him after all.My husband is just so plain and non adventurous and this stranger comes along and rocks my world.I usually tell my sister but she might look down on me and say you broke Chinese tradition by carrying on like this.I want to see this guy agan

Movie theater incident...do I tell?
How would you feel if you found out your husband had been cheating on you?





How will he feel if you cheat on him?





I could go on and on about moral, sluttyness, right and wrong, safety.........but the truth is, if you decide to go ahead, you are being needlessly cruel to you husband.





Have you ever though maybe HE%26#039;D like to play footsies with you in public at the movies, turn you on, then take you home??





(You might try that, it could be fun!!!)








Luck
Reply:You broke the %26quot;marriage tradition%26quot; by doing this. You married your husband, it would horrible for you to cheat on him. Why not try to do something adventurous with your husband? DO NOT call this guy, please. You already pretty much cheated on your husband. Don%26#039;t take it any farther. Your husband doesn%26#039;t deserve that. Why ruin a marriage for a little bit of %26quot;fun?%26quot; THat%26#039;s so sad...
Reply:ok no..you don%26#039;t even know this guy he couldbe a potential rapist or murderer....he needs to remain a stranger it might not be as fun as you think....
Reply:DON%26#039;T CHEAT! U cheat u ruin a relationship. TELL.
Reply:dont cheat, its a terriblething to do, if your not happy, and you cant work it out, seperate. there is nothing worse than being cheated on.
Reply:If you want to stay with your husband do not say anything. If you want more then your husband. then then do what you want, but please just do whats right and leave him
Reply:well apparently by nature you are a whore or you would have stopped the man immediately and switched seats at least with your husband, and you have already in your mind cheated on your husband and somewhat physically as well. you should admit to your husband that YOU are unworthy of his love and request a divorce leaving with nothing. then I suggest you go find a brothel to work in and you can have sex with and adventures with as many men as you like and ans some u don%26#039;t like and even get paid for it. You have no concept of marital commitment so you should leave with nothing but the clothes on your back admitting your unfaithfulness and never darken your husbands path in life again. you may also want to dissolve your ties with your family so you do not shame them as well as i doubt they brought you up to be a whore.
Reply:That%26#039;s awesome, and what kind of balls did this stranger have doing this right next to your husband?





Just make sure if you do this, it%26#039;s not going to be something you regret. It may be fun at first, but eventually it could end up hurting more than it helps!
Reply:Honestly, right off the bat to your question to tell? NO Don%26#039;t tell anyone. If I were you I would take this experience and just move on from it. Don%26#039;t do any acts of cheating... you%26#039;re married you took vows to love him forever. Sure the experience made you sexually %26#039;hot%26#039; n %26#039;horny%26#039; but listen you got married for a reason right? If you wanted to go out and date and just have causual encounters with strangers then you should be single. Either A. Learn to love your husband sexually and talk to him about his plainness and maybe try to make him more adventures for you... like maybe try and make love in a public place or try new things if thats what turns you on. You don%26#039;t need a stranger to satisfy your sexual needs, I%26#039;m sure your loving husband is willing to do anything to satisfy you. I%26#039;m sure you%26#039;ll make the right decision and learn from this experience. G%26#039;luck!
Reply:Oh boy! You just opened up the heavens for a flood of %26quot;cheating%26quot; reprimands and I am sure you know it. No one is going to tell you to hook up with this stranger..so if you are looking for positive response..you won%26#039;t get it in here. You asked should you tell? YES...TELL...your husband and tell him that you are going to be messing around with some stranger you played footsies with in the theater. I%26#039;m sure he will be contacting his attorney.
Reply:You should do your husband a favor and leave now instead of leading him on. Shame on you!
Reply:You married your husband. If you didn%26#039;t like his sex, you maybe should have reconsidered that. But you bound yourself to him and you love him (or at least you did at some point in time).





Are you ready to hurt him like that? Just for sex? Besides, there isn%26#039;t a whole lot of sexual pleasure a guy can give you that a nice, expensive Sue Johannsen toy can%26#039;t give you.





If you have other issues with your husband, that absolutely can%26#039;t be resolved, think about a divorce. But don%26#039;t stain your marriage with an affair. It%26#039;s just wrong and (hopefully) you%26#039;ll feel guilty forever.
Reply:I agree with Shranko who said you enjoyed the situation, not the guy.





Had you noticed that a girl sitting next to your husband were playing footsie, and that he was getting aroused by it, how would you feel?





Instead of putting your married life in jeopardy by seeing that stranger again, just try to spice up your sex life.





List out all the good things about your husband and about your married life before taking any decision.





Good luck in the future.
Reply:So divorce your boring hubby and keep it moving! What do you expect us to do or say? Do you want us to condone you starting an affair? Well if so, you wont get the ok from me. I wish your hubby all the best, because your a piece of work. You should probably be trying to get an antibiotic shot...you have no idea what that man has or could have really been doing while pretending to be playing footsie
Reply:I am grateful that it was not me that met, fell in love with, and married you.





Not that I married well anyway.





Aside from Chinese custom or whatever, how about plain old fashioned human respect?





If indeed this movie theater encounter is something you want to pursue, then woman up and tell your husband it is over because some guy in the movie theater rocked your world.





No one knows the ins and outs of your marriage except you and your husband. Even if he treats you poorly, don%26#039;t stoop to his level. Respect yourself enough to end it like an adult and not sneak around like a teenager.





(no offence to teens that don%26#039;t sneak around or even to teens that do--I know I sneaked around as a teen, and my comment was merely based on my own life.)
Reply:Hmm... I%26#039;d recommend talking to your husband about things first. You don%26#039;t have to bring that up, but think of vague questions about your concerns and have a discussion with him.
Reply:If your not happy in a relationship, leave the person before you look or play around. Cheating on him will only make matters worse between the two of you.
Reply:Why would you cheat on your husband?!


why did you marry him in the first place
Reply:here is my answer:





YOU ARE MARRIED!!! YOU HAVE A HUSBAND!!! IF YOU ARE GOING TO CHEAT, DIVORCE HIM AND MOVE TO VEGAS!!!!YOU GOT MARRIED TO UR HUBBIE FOR A REASON!


L O Y A L T Y!!!!!!!!!!!(obviously something that you lack)





oh yeah: what if that man you were flirting with is one of your husbands friends and he hired him to do that?.... oooh watch it girl
Reply:First off, what you are doing crosses way over the line of innocent flirting. You need to have a serious talk with your husband. Either save your marriage or leave it. Don%26#039;t be a cheating %26amp;%ore. If my wife did something like that...I would be very upset and if she actually contacted the guy, she would get the short road to the curb.





I hope this is made up. If you are that unhappy with your husband and are willing to jump at the first bit of excitement that comes your way, leave him.
Reply:what the *** are u doing. u are cheating by seein this other guy and feelin him up. dont do it unless u want the relationship to stop wit ur husband and u, unless hes really tolerant
Reply:You are married 1st of all. Just out respect for your husband you should not do it.


Ask yourself how would you feel if he treated you like this?





Do the right thing.
Reply:I think you are breaking with Chinese tradition.


In %26quot;The Nine Chapters%26quot; written by the great 3rd. Chinese Mathematician Lui, he delineates the statistical probability of catching germs from others by playing footsies with them.


The spreading of contagion from strangers to ones own family together with leading a secret life gives rise to disharmony within ones family and that is BAD LUCK.


I would not call him. I would have called the security on that perverted weirdo.
Reply:Wow girl you%26#039;ve already been with him??? If your husband isn%26#039;t adventurous enough for you then why did you marry him... The whole point of getting married is to restrain from these kinds of temptations.... I have yet to be married so I cannot relate on your level, but I don%26#039;t think this is right... I think that its very selfish... I wouldn%26#039;t do it again if you do you will start to develop stronger feelings for this man which will make the entire situation a big mess.... Unless you want to divorce your husband first....
Reply:your asian oh WOW.
Reply:just dont cheat on your husband!! if you want to get to know this guy you should divorce your husband but think about it
Reply:you should have told him stop, you are married for goodnees sake! what kind of wife are you? if you like to fool around then give your husband a favor and leave him so you can go fool around with men you don%26#039;t even know. and what%26#039;s worse is that you didnt even care that it was wrong. wow what a good wife.





if your husband is not so adventurous then maybe you need to sit down with him and makes some plans on how to spice up your life, not get it from someone else.
Reply:One he%26#039;s psycho and a sex offender (who knows?). If he guy is not afraid of getting caught, beat up I wouldn%26#039;t pass him for anything else. What if that was a decent woman and she tells her husband, what%26#039;s going to happen?


Two, if it only takes some cheap thrill to turn you on, you may want to confess to your husband and get a divorce since you said your husband is not interested. You have a potential cheating on your husband. What else you wouldn%26#039;t do with another stranger, right?


Third, I%26#039;m shocked to hear you%26#039;re Chinese. I thought Chinese women are more traditional and have more self respect. I%26#039;m Asian and I%26#039;m embarrassed to hear what happened. I hope people dont%26#039; think all Asian women are like this.
Reply:Follow your heart. It doesn%26#039;t matter what others think do what%26#039;s right for you.
Reply:If you dont have kids do what you want but otherwise think who u are affecting. I suggest if there are no kids you could possibly see this man but be careful before you let it get to serious
Reply:fyi u said it urself, u have a husband but hey its ur chioce there!



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