How would you know if your man is gay?

I have been dating this man for about 3 years and he likes to wear high heels during sex he says its a fetish and that he is not gay in fact he loves women. He reacts to situations like a woman loves to argue. He wears his heels to watch TV, wash his car not in public...he could be playing a video game and he will wear heels...he buys shoes in his own size and actually wears stocking with them at times . I told him I am uncomfortable with this but he does it anyway. He sometimes will wear them to bed all night long. What am I missing here.

How would you know if your man is gay?
I know from personal experiences that men do have a fetish for high heels. They are not gay but it is just their thing. Most men are turned on in one way or another by women's feet or shoes. Also most men who wear heels are more in touch with their female side.
Reply:it's just something he likes, it probably excites him sexually. this does NOT mean he is gay. it's more common than most people think, actually. he is a straight man who just happens to love women's shoes. there is nothing wrong with it.





if you personally are not comfortable with it, that's fine. it's probably time to find a new man who shares the same sexual interests that you share. sex is important in a relationship, and if the two of you don't work, then you don't work. it's just the way it is. let him find a woman who likes men in women's clothing, and go find yourself a man who shares your interests.
Reply:I can't say he's gay, BUT my husband doesn't want to wear anything that might belong to a woman!! This would be a MAJOR turn off to me. You draw your own conclusions, follow your gut....sounds like heartache in the future to me!
Reply:lol.....honey I dunno how much more clear it needs to be for you...I think you are waiting to find him in bed with another man before you kick out the denial then again even then he might convince you how it's just a fetish and a sexual thing



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