I suspect my wife is cheating?

It seems like everytime we go to a movie and another guy sits next to her she announces that she has to take off her shoes.Then she leans back in the seat so far and crosses her leg so that her stocking foot is touching her leg.Then she moves around a lot in her chair.The same when I have guy friends over for dinner she always has to announce her shoe removal.A couple of times at dinner I see my guy friends acting strange and she is acting strange too like something is going on under the table.Then I put it all together maybe she likes guys voyeuring her feet and she's playing footsie with them.She never mentioned this fetish to me we never play footsie but have given her a foot rub once a month.Is she playing footsie with these men and gets off on it?

I suspect my wife is cheating?
I would make her wear combat boots and put a padlock on the ties.
Reply:SLAP HER TEACH HER A LESSON!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:i think you have a guilty conscience. grow up.
Reply:Give her a foot massage one night and see how she reacts. If she likes it a lot like you think she does, I would suspect something. Also, ask your friends what they think, maybe they'll confess.
Reply:She gets turn on when men are around by taking off her shoes.
Reply:wow thats a weiiiiiiirrrrdddddd thing to do


maybe it is footsie


thats what i first thought of
Reply:Why don't you ask her???
Reply:If she has a foot fetish than you know she gets off on it. If she is announcing it to your friends and other men that she is taking of her shoes...she is making it known that she has a thing for feet and it turns her on. That isn't something that your friends should know about your wife.





For instance, lets put the shoe on the other foot. Say if really rough dominatrix sex was your fetish and every time her girlfriends came around you'd make an announcement like, "Uh oh! Kathy decided to wear her patent leather boots again! You better watch out girl!" And then all night you wanted to sit by Kathy or be close to her shoes, that would be weird ya know. Not because you are into dominatrix but because you are MARRIED and your wife is there.





I don't know if she is cheating per say but you need to let her know that her behavior around your friends is unacceptable. Flip the script and let her put the shoe on the other foot. But no ones wife needs to be acting like that around other men, especially your friends. Her fetishes, desires, and wants need to be kept in YOUR bedroom...not in the sexual imagination of other men.
Reply:Footsie..No, more like foot in crouch....
Reply:Yeah, she is.
Reply:Make her wear boots when going out or when people are over so that she can't easily remove them. If she is getting her jollies flirting with other guys in front of you, I wonder what she is doing behind your back.
Reply:I think you're just paranoid.


I wouldn't worry too much.
Reply:I don't know man it sounds like people won't really be able to tell if she is just taking off her shoes a lot or something more devious with just this online thingy. Maybe you can try focusing on her feet and casually talking to her about it. You could even try saying that you like her feet and would prefer if maybe she didn't let other men get to see them so much.
Reply:Well u better start taking care of her before someone else does! When her friends come over, walk around with your shirt open!
Reply:maybe, have you considered asking her. If she is touching other men it is inappropriate. Ask your friends, if it is true confront her and try to find a way to meet her special need
Reply:Ask her.
Reply:maybe u should talk to her.and ask if theres something wrong or that she is cheating on u
Reply:ask her! good luck!
Reply:that sounds odd for her to state that and yes i would asume something is amiss to do you have trusted friends or yours or hers that you can confide in to maybe get the truth?





Becareful...


if she is cheating





now a days if you even so much as make a woman feel uncomfortable you can end up in jail and with a domestic violence charge, even if she is in the wrong they will take you
Reply:you should consult her


she may not realize that this is infecting you


she may realize and stop



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