well i have been dating this guy for almost 4 years now and he today i realized that he lied about having to pay to go to the gym close to his house so that he can work out at the gym where this one girl is there that likes him. She apparently is like stocking him since he told her what time he goes to work out and she goes at the same time. I dont like it since i know she has bad intentions. She has already tried to pretend to be nice by buying a pair of shoes to buy his affections. He says its nothing, but he refuses to go a different time to work out, so what do i do? I know he talks to her when he goes there to work out. How do i get him to stop talking to her or go at a different time to work out and just brush her aside since i think he doesnt present himself as taken if she still thinks she can get him? please help. I told him how i felt and he just act like im over reacting, when i have a reason to.
What do i do with my guy problem? please help!!!!!!!!!!?
Typical guy....says .."it's nothing"....hummmm..interesting ...he goes there at the same time as she does...hummmm..also but he refuses to go at a different time...oh brother...i think they are both interested in each other..But one is waiting for someone to dump the other PARTY so they can get together....hummmm..I would just break it off with him.....,,otherwise it will keep going on and on and on!!! just say.."I feel we are both going in different directions.." or " i feel we have grown apart.."...or whatever you have in mind...Just end it...BECAUSE THE LONGER YOU PROLONG IT THE WORSE IT GETS..TAKE IT FROM ONE WHO KNOWS...sorry to have to tell you...but I think something is going on....My mom use to say...if the guy hasn't married you within 2 years , he won't...now there are exceptions though...still i would be concerned about HIS BEHAVIOR!!!
Reply:ok, why don't you go to the gym with him. just suggest the idea. if he says no, then find yourself your very own new gym buddy.
Reply:You know what to do, but for some reason you are stuck on him. He is going to see her because he wants to see her. If you like dating a man who is dating someone else, keep doing what you are doing. If you want a man who will date you and only you, you willl have to find someone else.
Reply:wise up hon...if he takes the time to stop and talk to her...at any time...she is NOT stalking him...if she was and he didnt like it...he would report her..dont you think?...if the situation was reversed...what would you do?//
Reply:Are you sure he is going to work out??? Cause it sounds to me like he is doing more than just working out
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